Yep I forgot to add that to my comment

privacytools is controversial for turning into a cash grab and is about privacy alternatives, many apps have good privacy but aren’t open and are missing some features so more general software alternatives sites are way better i personally like alternativeto

alternativeto

This website is filled with AI slop just use alternativeto.net what is wrong with them, they also have a great news page for projects on there

Not sure if I trust selfh.st after that hot take against FOSS

Codeberg pages

Headscale.

Thank you very much I will try out proxmox

I want to host a couple of things like email and immich and Nextcloud for privacy and security and money saving needs I currently use Google photos and hosted Nextcloud by adminforge.de its good and privacy respecting and a nice owner, but I would like more than 2gb.

I am familiar with Linux and comfortable in terminal, but I am not comfortable networking, and I am not a programmer.